RESTRAINTS

Bring a little order to your love life | The introduction of something as simple as wrist or leg restraints will freshen things up no end. No-one wants to take responsibility all the time so the use of restraints for ankles and wrists opens up some interesting scenarios. After all there's more to sex than fucking someone, and tying a partner up opens up a plethora of anticipation and 'mind-fuckery' opportunities that are very sexy. You can use restraints to hold limbs together or spread them apart. The recipient of the bondage can either be kept at a peak of arousal for a long period of time (known as edging) or be subjected to forced serial orgasms at the behest of the 'dominant' partner. It doesn't have to be as full-on as this however, many couples use cuffs as a light-hearted adjunct to sex to add a frisson to the main event. A suggestive flirtation with the notion or imagery of bondage may be all that is needed to liven things up in a long-term relationship.